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Psi i ljudi nisu isti, način komunikacije, brzina djelovanja, potrebe i sam doživljaj svijeta je bitno drugačiji kod jednih i drugih čak i neke osnovne geste i načini imaju sasvim drugačije značenje kod ljudi, a drugačije kod pasa, pa nam je stoga i komunikacija sasvim drugačija. I dok ljudi pričaju psi djeluju.
Pas kad nešto hoće jednostavno to i napravi bilo da se radi o zauzimanju prostora, igračke, igri, šetnji/potrebi za kretanjem i istraživanjem mirisa, pas fizički djeluje, ide u akciju. Pa npr. ako želi rupu koju drugi pas kopa jednostavno će prići sa određenim fizičkom stavom tijela uz koji ide i fokusiran pogled i nametne se, preuzme rupu ako drugi to dozvoli što se isto vidi fizički na tijelu, djelovanjem ili će možda zalajati, zarežati ali će to odmah popratiti i fizičkom akcijom znači opet djelovanjem, tjeranjem od rupe ili pozivom na igru (što je usput rečeno vrlo dobar način za postizanje bilo čega sa psom,igra kao takva) i preusmjeravanjem pažnje na sebe da bi na kraju na jedan vrlo suptilan način opet došao do onog što želi, tuđe rupe u zemlji.
A mi ljudi? Mi ljudi pričamo, meljemo, bez kraja i konca u nedogled i naš glas koji tako i tako stalno izlazi van je sve manje bitan, postaje neki konstantni šum i još kad u to dodate emocije koje se javljaju htjeli mi to ili ne, a pas ih osjeti kroz promjenu mirisa našeg tijela (strah, nervozu, nelagodu, ljutnju, lagano veselje jer nam je smiješan ustvari, uzbuđenje, nesigurnost,…) eto ti problema. Ono što nas, ljude, spašava da su psi vrlo prilagodljivi i da im nije bitan put do onoga što žele bitno im je samo da to dobiju i vrlo lako se prepuste i slijede pa kako sam i navela u prvom tekstu mijenjajući svoj način mijenjamo i psa odnosno njegove akcije ili reakcije. Međutim ljudima je nevjerojatno teško riješiti se starih navika, skoncentrirati se na sebe samoga i izbaciti iz glave sve drugo što danas, jučer ili sutra nosi, ali pobogu zato i imate psa da pobjegnete malo u neki drugi svijet od onog svakodnevnog, isto kao što im je jako teško da se ne povedu za situacijom odnosno da ponašanje psa ne utječe na njih ili da primijete male sitne promjene na bolje ili gore u ponašanju svog psa u moru nekog naučenog ponašanja.
Ključ promjene ponašanja vašeg psa leži isključivo u vama i nikom drugome pa tako prije nego počnete koristiti bujicu riječi probajte jednostavno djelovati, naravno kada dokučite što u stvari stvarno želite promijeniti na psu a što vam je ipak malo zabavno, nakon što dokučite kako točno izgleda to što želite i kako ćete to psu pokazati (ne reći ;) ) i nakon što dokučite koje su i kolike stvarno potrebe vašeg psa i što ga motivira (motivacija ne mora nužno biti ista za različite situacije, ali je jako bitna jer u konačnici je to nagrada zbog koje pas slijedi vaš put i vaš način i to je ono nešto što pas silno želi) jer i vi radite to što radite zbog neke motivacije, što je kod ljudi uglavnom novac, a ako ste tip od volontiranja imajte na umu da psi ne volontiraju, oni svime što rade zadovoljavaju neku svoju potrebu.
Psi i ljudi nisu isti, način komunikacije, brzina djelovanja, potrebe i sam doživljaj svijeta je bitno drugačiji kod jednih i drugih čak i neke osnovne geste i načini imaju sasvim drugačije značenje kod ljudi, a drugačije kod pasa, pa nam je stoga i komunikacija sasvim drugačija. I dok ljudi pričaju psi djeluju.
Pas kad nešto hoće jednostavno to i napravi bilo da se radi o zauzimanju prostora, igračke, igri, šetnji/potrebi za kretanjem i istraživanjem mirisa, pas fizički djeluje, ide u akciju. Pa npr. ako želi rupu koju drugi pas kopa jednostavno će prići sa određenim fizičkom stavom tijela uz koji ide i fokusiran pogled i nametne se, preuzme rupu ako drugi to dozvoli što se isto vidi fizički na tijelu, djelovanjem ili će možda zalajati, zarežati ali će to odmah popratiti i fizičkom akcijom znači opet djelovanjem, tjeranjem od rupe ili pozivom na igru (što je usput rečeno vrlo dobar način za postizanje bilo čega sa psom,igra kao takva) i preusmjeravanjem pažnje na sebe da bi na kraju na jedan vrlo suptilan način opet došao do onog što želi, tuđe rupe u zemlji.
A mi ljudi? Mi ljudi pričamo, meljemo, bez kraja i konca u nedogled i naš glas koji tako i tako stalno izlazi van je sve manje bitan, postaje neki konstantni šum i još kad u to dodate emocije koje se javljaju htjeli mi to ili ne, a pas ih osjeti kroz promjenu mirisa našeg tijela (strah, nervozu, nelagodu, ljutnju, lagano veselje jer nam je smiješan ustvari, uzbuđenje, nesigurnost,…) eto ti problema. Ono što nas, ljude, spašava da su psi vrlo prilagodljivi i da im nije bitan put do onoga što žele bitno im je samo da to dobiju i vrlo lako se prepuste i slijede pa kako sam i navela u prvom tekstu mijenjajući svoj način mijenjamo i psa odnosno njegove akcije ili reakcije. Međutim ljudima je nevjerojatno teško riješiti se starih navika, skoncentrirati se na sebe samoga i izbaciti iz glave sve drugo što danas, jučer ili sutra nosi, ali pobogu zato i imate psa da pobjegnete malo u neki drugi svijet od onog svakodnevnog, isto kao što im je jako teško da se ne povedu za situacijom odnosno da ponašanje psa ne utječe na njih ili da primijete male sitne promjene na bolje ili gore u ponašanju svog psa u moru nekog naučenog ponašanja.
Ključ promjene ponašanja vašeg psa leži isključivo u vama i nikom drugome pa tako prije nego počnete koristiti bujicu riječi probajte jednostavno djelovati, naravno kada dokučite što u stvari stvarno želite promijeniti na psu a što vam je ipak malo zabavno, nakon što dokučite kako točno izgleda to što želite i kako ćete to psu pokazati (ne reći ;) ) i nakon što dokučite koje su i kolike stvarno potrebe vašeg psa i što ga motivira (motivacija ne mora nužno biti ista za različite situacije, ali je jako bitna jer u konačnici je to nagrada zbog koje pas slijedi vaš put i vaš način i to je ono nešto što pas silno želi) jer i vi radite to što radite zbog neke motivacije, što je kod ljudi uglavnom novac, a ako ste tip od volontiranja imajte na umu da psi ne volontiraju, oni svime što rade zadovoljavaju neku svoju potrebu.
In a way this the the follow up of my first text here where
I have mentioned how quantity of words or changing the sound of the command
will not make your dog more obedient but on the contrary in the long run it
will have completely different effect on your relationship with your dog.
Dogs and humans are not the same, type of communication, the velocity of decisions and actions, needs and the basic experience of the world and surroundings is different in ones and in the others, even some of basic gestures and ways have completely different meaning in humans and in dogs.
When a dog wants something he simply acts physically, whether is it about taking a space, a toy, a play, a walk/need for motion (exercise) and exploring the smells, dog physically acts, he goes into action. For example if he wants others dog hole in the ground he will simply approach with specific physical posture of the body with a focused look in his eyes and he will impose himself and take over the hole if the other dog will allow him to which you can also see physically in his body language. The other possible communication is barking or growling but also it will be accompanied with physical action such as scaring the dog away or inviting him to play (which is by the way a very good way to accomplish anything you want with your dog, playing as such) and redirecting his focus on himself so that he would eventually get what he wants, others dog hole in the ground, in a very subtly way.
And we humans? We, humans, talk, grinding the words endlessly and our voice which is coming out of our mouth constantly becomes less and less important, it becomes a constant noise and if we add to that emotions which occurred whether we want them or not and the dog sniffs them on our changed body odour (fear, nervousness, discomfort, anger, slight joy because in a way he is funny, excitement, insecurity,…) we have a problem. The one thing that saves us humans is that dogs are very adaptable and that they don't care about the path towards something they want, they care only to get what they want and they easily let them selves go and follow and as I mentioned in previous text by changing our way we change the dogs also, his actions and reactions. However to humans is incredibly hard to let go of old habits, to concentrate on themselves and to release out of their mind everything else that today, yesterday or tomorrow brings, but for gods sakes that is why you got a dog in the first place to escape a little bit in some other world different from the one that you are in every single day. One other thing incredibly difficult to humans is not to get caught emotionally in situations, in other words that the dogs behavior does not effect them or that they notice small changes in dogs behavior for better or for worse in a big picture of usual learned behavior.
The key in your dogs behavior is in you and nobody else and so before you stars to use torrent of words try simply to act physically, of course when you find out which and how big are the needs of your dog and what motivates him (motivation doesn't necessary have to be same thing in different occasions, but it is very important because in the end that is the thing for which your dog will follow your path, your way and that is the thing that he really wants at the end) because you also work for some kind of motivation, that is usually money for people, and if your are a volunteer type of person have in mind that dogs are not, they don't volunteer, everything that they do is because they want to satisfy some need.
Dogs and humans are not the same, type of communication, the velocity of decisions and actions, needs and the basic experience of the world and surroundings is different in ones and in the others, even some of basic gestures and ways have completely different meaning in humans and in dogs.
When a dog wants something he simply acts physically, whether is it about taking a space, a toy, a play, a walk/need for motion (exercise) and exploring the smells, dog physically acts, he goes into action. For example if he wants others dog hole in the ground he will simply approach with specific physical posture of the body with a focused look in his eyes and he will impose himself and take over the hole if the other dog will allow him to which you can also see physically in his body language. The other possible communication is barking or growling but also it will be accompanied with physical action such as scaring the dog away or inviting him to play (which is by the way a very good way to accomplish anything you want with your dog, playing as such) and redirecting his focus on himself so that he would eventually get what he wants, others dog hole in the ground, in a very subtly way.
And we humans? We, humans, talk, grinding the words endlessly and our voice which is coming out of our mouth constantly becomes less and less important, it becomes a constant noise and if we add to that emotions which occurred whether we want them or not and the dog sniffs them on our changed body odour (fear, nervousness, discomfort, anger, slight joy because in a way he is funny, excitement, insecurity,…) we have a problem. The one thing that saves us humans is that dogs are very adaptable and that they don't care about the path towards something they want, they care only to get what they want and they easily let them selves go and follow and as I mentioned in previous text by changing our way we change the dogs also, his actions and reactions. However to humans is incredibly hard to let go of old habits, to concentrate on themselves and to release out of their mind everything else that today, yesterday or tomorrow brings, but for gods sakes that is why you got a dog in the first place to escape a little bit in some other world different from the one that you are in every single day. One other thing incredibly difficult to humans is not to get caught emotionally in situations, in other words that the dogs behavior does not effect them or that they notice small changes in dogs behavior for better or for worse in a big picture of usual learned behavior.
The key in your dogs behavior is in you and nobody else and so before you stars to use torrent of words try simply to act physically, of course when you find out which and how big are the needs of your dog and what motivates him (motivation doesn't necessary have to be same thing in different occasions, but it is very important because in the end that is the thing for which your dog will follow your path, your way and that is the thing that he really wants at the end) because you also work for some kind of motivation, that is usually money for people, and if your are a volunteer type of person have in mind that dogs are not, they don't volunteer, everything that they do is because they want to satisfy some need.
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